Thursday, October 1, 2009

Fantasy or Desire?

It’s a rainy Thursday. The clouds are low and dark. It looks more like late evening that mid afternoon. Staring out the window and listening to the radio I remember listening to the radio the other morning and hearing the hosts talk about one of their fantasies. Now my mind is churning with thoughts. What is my fantasy? Is it a fantasy or desire? Is it both?

The fantasy heard on the radio went like this: He stated that he had watched a clip of a woman giving a man head while smoking a cigarette. He was so turned on by this that he talked about it for several days. Now, he said he would love to have that done to him. He also stated that he didn’t like the smell of cigarette smoke or had never even smoked. Taking calls from listeners when he asked if it was strange, not one of them answered that his fantasy was wierd, gross, or anything of the sort. Is this a fantasy or a desire?

Websters lists one of the definitions of Fantasy as

the power or process of creating especially unrealistic or improbable mental images in response to psychological need ; also : a mental image or a series of mental images (as a daydream) so created

It also lists a definition of Desire as

to long or hope for : exhibit or feel desire for

If the radio host really wants this to happen, I’m sure there are plenty of female listeners who would be happy to oblige him. If he DESIRES he would go after that to make it happen. Right?

In thinking of MY fantasy, I can think of a few things. One would be having two women at the same time and while fucking one, the other would be taking me out and putting me in her mouth and then putting back in the other woman. The other would be to watch as my wife or girlfriend was fucked by another man and I may or may not want to be a part of the other side.

Now, while I would not feel comfortable watching another man screw the person I was involved with, I sometimes have this vision while in certain positions during sex. This is a fantasy. Do I desire it? No. But I can see this in my head as I am performing. What does that do? It makes me harder and almost instant completion of the task all over a face, back, chest, vaj jay…. even a wall or two. Just call me Picasso!!!!

What about the one with 2 females? Is that Fantasy or desire? I think it’s a little of both. I will sometimes get this image in my mind while having sex as well however, if the situation ever presented itself, I would be all over this like “white on rice”.  I’ve had the 2 females at once thing.  I’ve even had 2 sisters at once but it was never one helping the other and me at the same time.  I think I might be a little scared to do that!  Talk about wasting a perfectly good opportunity.  It would be over before it started.  Even when I see clips of this, it’s insta-wood for me!  Maybe I should practice?  I hear the more you practice, the longer you can go.  Anyone?  Anyone??

So based on the definitions and some of my own “stories”, we have concluded that a Fantasy is something you kind of make up in your head and have images in your head of. Will it ever really become a reality? More than likely not since most people don’t share fantasies with anyone, even their lovers which is a bit of a shame. A desire, on the other hand, is something you want to happen. You will go out of your way to make it so or even jump at the opportunity.

Then you have those that desire to fulfill their fantasy! Different posting!!

I don’t know if I did anything other than make it more confusing but, it was a little fun to write. Hmmm, reading this, I have a semi going on!

I know. I know. On with the pics….. Without further hesitation:

Reflected

Bath

Gate

Wrap

Pierced

Friends

And since today is HNT (Half Naked Thursday), be sure you check out a few sites (on the links section) that have some really great posts. Feel free to post some yourself!

Have a great day! Please feel free to comment! I do read them and love hearing your thoughts or suggestions.

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