An Introduction to Anal Sex

Anal sex, this is everybody.  Everybody, this is Anal sex.  Now we have the formalities out of they way, let’s have a good look at anal sex.

Anal Sex is apparently, the New Black.  Surveys tell us that everyone is doing it.  For teen girls not wanting to get pregnant, it used to be a hand job or a blowjob in the back of the car, but now it’s taking it in the backdoor that is in vogue.  According to an online survey I read today on Boing Boing, lots of people at MIT are having anal sex.  Have a look at the graph:

Not bad for a supposedly taboo subject!!

83.6% of sexually active respondents to an MIT sex survey have at least tried anal sex.  At least that’s how I read that graph.

So, on to more specific things!

I like anal sex.  I can orgasm this way.  I also understand that it can be intimidating, uncomfortable, embarrassing and downright painful.  So, how to start if you are new to it?

First off, I am writing this from a woman’s perspective, as that is the only one I have.

If you haven’t been initiated into the pleasures of anal sex, you need to remember a few things.

• Start small.  You don’t want to be putting anything like this inside you the first time.  A finger is good for a first time experience, but remember, make sure they cut their nails!
• Start slow.  A bum is different to a pussy.  It is smaller and tighter.  It doesn’t relax as easily.
• Be gentle.  The last thing you want is someone slamming away in there with little regard for you, it is different to vaginal sex.
• Use lube.  Lots.  When you think you have enough, use more.  The anus doesn’t self lubricate, and skin or what have you pulling on skin can get uncomfortable and painful quickly.
• Use a condom, especially if you want any other type of sex later.  It keeps him clean, keeps toys clean, protects from infections, and makes clean up easier.

Men, take your time, be respectful, and take no for an answer.  Also, don’t be rough.  At least, not until you are asked to be.

Anal sex isn’t for everybody, and I like it only occasionally.  It is great when I do get it, and the orgasms are different to a vaginal or clitoral orgasm, but no less intense.  It is a fantastic addition to our sexual repertoire.

And variety is the spice of life!

Love,

Chiquita

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